To help or get helped, nothing wrong with this impulse to serve, to support, and to help others grow – is beautiful.

But what began as supportive conversation may turn into a power struggle and emotional mud.

Now how get out of the “Yes, but . . .” rut? For sure you’re in the rut and you’re responsible for getting yourself out. Not them. See how to do it!

http://www.wisdomheart.org/2011/yes-but-rut/